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This is especially for Guys.
I just want to give guys more meaning to what we want them to do.
This is my own perspective anyway. :)
When she walks away from you mad - [Follow her]
Yes. When girls are mad and we walked away from guys
all we need is more loving and more sweetness. :)
When she stares at your lips - [Kiss her]
Some girls do not want to get kissed unexpectedly. Like me, I do not want to get kissed without my mind set onto it. I mean, There could be a another reason why I stare at his lips. It could be I just adore his pinky lips so much or simply because there is something between your teeth. haha!
When she pushes you or hit's you - [Grab her and don’t let go]
This works a lot for some girls. When she pushes you away and grab her at the same time its actually a feeling of security. It makes her feel that even though we pushed you away you still want her in spite of everything we have done wrong to you.
When she starts cursing at you - [Kiss her and tell her you love her]
I'd never cursed my guy so I don't know how it feels to curse and what is the reason behind cursing because for me, If you love someone so much you will try not to hurt his feelings no matter what but if ever I started cursing my guy all I want him to do is to stop me from talking, kiss me and assure me that he loves me so much.
When she's quiet - [Ask her what’s wrong]
Of course! Ask her what's wrong. When a girl is quiet after a fight, She is probably thinking what to say next. Some girls think first before speaking, Girls are thinking a more constructive sentence or she is thinking of a language that guys will understand. Coz we all know that no matter how hard we try to tell them how we feel about a certain thing they still can not understand them not unless you speak in their own language.
When a girl is quiet when she meets up with a guy. Probably, There is something bothering her about her relationship or she has a problem with other people.
When she ignores you - [Give her your attention]
When girls ignore their guys all we need is more loving and more attention. Give us your time and we're fine with that.
When she pulls away - [Pull her back]
I actually love it when my guy pulls me through my wrist when we need to rush for something. Its a feeling that I can't explain.
Anyway, Probably, You guys, did something wrong that made her step one foot backward. When she pull away, pull her back and explain your side and assure her everything is alright.
When you see her at her worst - [Tell her she's beautiful]
When I'm stressed my guy gives me massages and sometimes treats me with much food and of course, more love. Most girls turn to their guys whenever they feel down and stressed. You guys must know how to make our ugly feelings go away. Ask her what she wants you to do or know what makes her relaxed. For example, When she's stressed she usually goes to the spa. So the next time she is stressed take the initiative and treat her to a spa day.
When you see her start crying - [Just hold her and don’t say a word]
Yes. Hold us and assure us everything is alright. Even you are mad at your girl, Even you had a nasty fight with her when she breaks down hold us, hug her tight and don't ever let go even though she pushes you away. She will definitely give in and will hug you back but not unless you cheated on her or lie to her on purpose. BE READY because you never know what a girl can do.
When you see her walking - [Sneak up and hug her waist from behind]
Not all the time. Not in a place with a lot of people, not when she's with her friends. Not when she's bringing a lot of things. Do it when there is only few people. Do it when the guy you are jealous about is just around. Do it when the girl she is jealous about is just around.
When she's scared - [Protect her]
Definitely! When your girl is scared and she calls you up. Be there and protect her.
When she lays her head on your shoulder - [Tilt her head up and kiss her]
I'd never experienced this but anyway, when your girl lays her head on your shoulder, you can tilt her head up and kiss her or hug her from her waist and tell her you love her.
When she steal your favorite cap - [Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]
When she steal your cap play with her first tickle her, goof her, try to get your cap back and in the end, Let her keep your cap not for a night but until her heart's content.
When she teases you - [Tease her back and make her laugh]
When she teases you make fun of her, tease her and make her laugh.
When she doesn’t answer for a long time - [reassure her that everything is fine]
This is what most of the girls want guys to do. Instead of asking what's wrong with her just reassure her that everything is alright.
When she looks at you with doubt - [Back yourself up with the TRUTH]
Yes. No white lies please. Your girl needs the truth and besides whatever you do she will always know it. She will always find a way to assure herself that there's no reason to be doubtful. So be extra careful.
When she says that she likes you - [she really does more than you could understand]
She likes you then take one step forward.
When she grabs at your hands - [Hold hers and play with her fingers]
This a cute way to make her feel loved.
When she tells you a secret - [keep it safe and untold]
You are the most trusted person in her life. Remember that trust is the hardest thing to earn.
When she looks at you in your eyes - [don’t look away until she does]
Yes. Do not let her look away from you. Kiss her if she insists.
WHEN SHE MISSES YOU - [SHES HURTING INSIDE]
When your girl says she misses you. She wants you to be with her.
When you break her heart - [the pain NEVER really goes away]
Yes. So don't ever break her heart and don't make promises if you can't make do it.
When she says its over - [she STILL wants you to be hers]
Yes. This is definitely true. Your girl might say its over and wants you to leave her she actually means the opposite side. She only wants assurance that despite of being a bad girl you still want her and willing to be with her for the rest of your life.
- Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything
Thats boring. At least say something or think about a topic to talk about.
- DON'T let her have the last word
Only when you are talking on the phone.
- NEVER call her hot! Pretty and beautiful is so much better
Do not ALWAYS call her hot.
- Say you love her more than she could ever love you
One of the nicest thing a guy could say to a girl.
- Argue that she is the best girl ever
Yes but No lies please. Don't ever tell her she is the best girl ever when the truth is someone else does.
- When she says she's sorry, she truly means it
Yes. Your girl do not like it when she tells you she's sorry and you're only saying that its alright/fine. We want you to assure us that you are really forgiving us.
- Treat her like she's all that matters to you
Definitely!
- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid
It simply means give importance to the things that is important to her.
unSPOILED BRATINELLA. Mary Angel
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This is especially for Guys.
I just want to give guys more meaning to what we want them to do.
This is my own perspective anyway. :)
When she walks away from you mad - [Follow her]
Yes. When girls are mad and we walked away from guys
all we need is more loving and more sweetness. :)
When she stares at your lips - [Kiss her]
Some girls do not want to get kissed unexpectedly. Like me, I do not want to get kissed without my mind set onto it. I mean, There could be a another reason why I stare at his lips. It could be I just adore his pinky lips so much or simply because there is something between your teeth. haha!
When she pushes you or hit's you - [Grab her and don’t let go]
This works a lot for some girls. When she pushes you away and grab her at the same time its actually a feeling of security. It makes her feel that even though we pushed you away you still want her in spite of everything we have done wrong to you.
When she starts cursing at you - [Kiss her and tell her you love her]
I'd never cursed my guy so I don't know how it feels to curse and what is the reason behind cursing because for me, If you love someone so much you will try not to hurt his feelings no matter what but if ever I started cursing my guy all I want him to do is to stop me from talking, kiss me and assure me that he loves me so much.
When she's quiet - [Ask her what’s wrong]
Of course! Ask her what's wrong. When a girl is quiet after a fight, She is probably thinking what to say next. Some girls think first before speaking, Girls are thinking a more constructive sentence or she is thinking of a language that guys will understand. Coz we all know that no matter how hard we try to tell them how we feel about a certain thing they still can not understand them not unless you speak in their own language.
When a girl is quiet when she meets up with a guy. Probably, There is something bothering her about her relationship or she has a problem with other people.
When she ignores you - [Give her your attention]
When girls ignore their guys all we need is more loving and more attention. Give us your time and we're fine with that.
When she pulls away - [Pull her back]
I actually love it when my guy pulls me through my wrist when we need to rush for something. Its a feeling that I can't explain.
Anyway, Probably, You guys, did something wrong that made her step one foot backward. When she pull away, pull her back and explain your side and assure her everything is alright.
When you see her at her worst - [Tell her she's beautiful]
When I'm stressed my guy gives me massages and sometimes treats me with much food and of course, more love. Most girls turn to their guys whenever they feel down and stressed. You guys must know how to make our ugly feelings go away. Ask her what she wants you to do or know what makes her relaxed. For example, When she's stressed she usually goes to the spa. So the next time she is stressed take the initiative and treat her to a spa day.
When you see her start crying - [Just hold her and don’t say a word]
Yes. Hold us and assure us everything is alright. Even you are mad at your girl, Even you had a nasty fight with her when she breaks down hold us, hug her tight and don't ever let go even though she pushes you away. She will definitely give in and will hug you back but not unless you cheated on her or lie to her on purpose. BE READY because you never know what a girl can do.
When you see her walking - [Sneak up and hug her waist from behind]
Not all the time. Not in a place with a lot of people, not when she's with her friends. Not when she's bringing a lot of things. Do it when there is only few people. Do it when the guy you are jealous about is just around. Do it when the girl she is jealous about is just around.
When she's scared - [Protect her]
Definitely! When your girl is scared and she calls you up. Be there and protect her.
When she lays her head on your shoulder - [Tilt her head up and kiss her]
I'd never experienced this but anyway, when your girl lays her head on your shoulder, you can tilt her head up and kiss her or hug her from her waist and tell her you love her.
When she steal your favorite cap - [Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]
When she steal your cap play with her first tickle her, goof her, try to get your cap back and in the end, Let her keep your cap not for a night but until her heart's content.
When she teases you - [Tease her back and make her laugh]
When she teases you make fun of her, tease her and make her laugh.
When she doesn’t answer for a long time - [reassure her that everything is fine]
This is what most of the girls want guys to do. Instead of asking what's wrong with her just reassure her that everything is alright.
When she looks at you with doubt - [Back yourself up with the TRUTH]
Yes. No white lies please. Your girl needs the truth and besides whatever you do she will always know it. She will always find a way to assure herself that there's no reason to be doubtful. So be extra careful.
When she says that she likes you - [she really does more than you could understand]
She likes you then take one step forward.
When she grabs at your hands - [Hold hers and play with her fingers]
This a cute way to make her feel loved.
When she tells you a secret - [keep it safe and untold]
You are the most trusted person in her life. Remember that trust is the hardest thing to earn.
When she looks at you in your eyes - [don’t look away until she does]
Yes. Do not let her look away from you. Kiss her if she insists.
WHEN SHE MISSES YOU - [SHES HURTING INSIDE]
When your girl says she misses you. She wants you to be with her.
When you break her heart - [the pain NEVER really goes away]
Yes. So don't ever break her heart and don't make promises if you can't make do it.
When she says its over - [she STILL wants you to be hers]
Yes. This is definitely true. Your girl might say its over and wants you to leave her she actually means the opposite side. She only wants assurance that despite of being a bad girl you still want her and willing to be with her for the rest of your life.
- Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything
Thats boring. At least say something or think about a topic to talk about.
- DON'T let her have the last word
Only when you are talking on the phone.
- NEVER call her hot! Pretty and beautiful is so much better
Do not ALWAYS call her hot.
- Say you love her more than she could ever love you
One of the nicest thing a guy could say to a girl.
- Argue that she is the best girl ever
Yes but No lies please. Don't ever tell her she is the best girl ever when the truth is someone else does.
- When she says she's sorry, she truly means it
Yes. Your girl do not like it when she tells you she's sorry and you're only saying that its alright/fine. We want you to assure us that you are really forgiving us.
- Treat her like she's all that matters to you
Definitely!
- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid
It simply means give importance to the things that is important to her.
unSPOILED BRATINELLA. Mary Angel
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Real Name: Mary Angelbelle S. Dizon
Age: 17
Birth Date: September 19, 1992
School: Centro Escolar University
Course: Dentistry
I am Mary Angel but call me Ella. My BLOG documents my Bittersweet Life as a University Student, an intimidating Friend, a Loving Daughter, a Sweet Girlfriend and an Independent G I R L. This is my Web Journal where in all my thoughts, craves, rants and happenings in my life are posted. Constructive Criticism are highly appreciated! ♥
University Student ○ I am currently taking up DENTISTRY which is one of the difficult and the most expensive majors. At first, It was hard dealing with college life, the subjects along with the lessons and its quizzes and projects and of course, the professors and the grades, block mates and the school itself. but as the days go by all the pressure and pleasure, fun, hardships, trials and updates about being a College Student have a sense of fulfillment in the end! :)
Intimidating Friend ○ What is Friend? For me Friend is someone you have that knows how to deal with your drama in life. Someone who accepts you for who you are, Someone who isn't afraid of telling you your wrong doings, Someone who will never turn their back in spite of your mood swings and attitude problems. Someone who will always settle things with you. That's how I define FRIEND. You? How do you define FRIENDSHIP?
Loving Daughter ○ I love my family so much. They are the foundation of my own self. I am the eldest among the family. At this point of time, Pressure of being the eldest do not conquer me, YET. When I was younger, my grandmother nurtured me and took care of me when my Mom was away and still, nurturing and taking care of me at this point of time even Mom is already here for us. I owe my grandmother so much. Though I was spoiled by her in many ways and sometimes unintentionally made things difficult for her because of my wrong doings I still go back and make it up to her. She became a Mother, a Father and a Grandmother to me all at the same time. She's my inspiration in life.
Sweet Girlfriend ○ Oh yes, I am into a long term relationship right now, with my Best Friend. You read it right. Best Friends turned Lovers. Being in love with your best friend is good and easy and being in a relationship with your Best friend isn't better but the BEST! Friendship is a very good foundation of LOVE and I am very much happy to have a relationship with friendship as a foundation but of course, just like any love, Trials and Challenges still come along our way but everything's worth it.
My Dad once told me how they got my name. He said, When mom was laboring, He prayed to Mama Mary and the Angels for Mom's guidance. That's how I got, Mary Angel, from Mama Mary and the Angels and the Belle? Well, Dad said he got that from Mom's name: Bel.
Yes I know, I have a very long name. Haha.
Ella.
For the obvious fact that I have a very long name, I had difficulty choosing a name to call me, a nickname. Before it was Belle, then it turned to Elle and finally, I settled for one, ELLA. I love that name ever since. It was hard convincing people to call me Ella because they are all used to call me ANGEL but I know they'll get used to it. :)
- I was born 10:36 am at Olivarez Hospital, Paranaque.
- Christened at St. Andrew Church, Paranaque.
- I am the Eldest Child.
- I am the Eldest Grandchild.
- I am the Eldest Great Grandchild.
- I have no full siblings. - Unica Hija of my Parents but I have siblings on both sides now. :)
- I have two handsome brothers and one pretty sister ( Maternal ). - named Simon, Samuel and Sarah. I love them so much!
- I have a beautiful mother. - Of course, kanino pa ba ako magmamana? :)
- I have a boyfriend. - named Lloyd Philip Hamilton-brown Frilles. He's my bestfriend before he became my boyfriend. Cool right? :D
- Primary: El Nino de Salambao Academy, Paranaque
- Elementary: ENDSA and MES, BES.
- High School: PNHS, Angelicum College, Quezon City
- Academic and Special Awards: Best in Art (Kinder), Best in Science (Elementary) 1st runner up Miss Agham (Elementary), Most Courteous (Elementary), 2nd honorable mention (Elementary), Two 4th honorable mention (Elementary). (I had no awards in High school, AC is a non graded institution. )
- College: Centro Escolar University, Manila - Taking up Dentistry and currently on my 2nd year.
- Independent - I take care of myself, alone.
- Optimistic - I see things on the bright side whenever I have a problem.
- Sweet - I am sweet when it comes to the people I care about. So dont get me wrong.
- Loving - as much as possible I try showing my love but when I dont see anything in return, I might bounce back.
- Sarcastic - I use this to defend my self.
- Frank - When you get into my nerves I could tell the most hurtful word to you. " I say what I mean and mean what I say. "
- Vain - Well, I guess its just a part of being a GIRL.
- Stubborn - Yes. Very Stubborn and Bossy. I want what I want. ( You can ask my mom.)
- Dancer - I love dancing ever since. I just dont have that much passion to get into it.
- Wild - Wild in a sense that I am game for anything. :)
- Spoiled - I was spoiled when I was younger. Before, My grandparents almost give everything I want and need and that was lots of love! I am still spoiled right now, by Lloyd.
- Bitch - I hate people who hurts people's feelings. I stand up for them and that makes me a bitch to you.
- Opinionated - Beware: My opinion contains sarcasm, well not all the time. :D
- Health Freak - I am very much concern when it comes to my body. My hate list includes: Alcohol and Smoke, any kind of smoke.
- Confident - I believe Confidence is one of the most important attitudes of being a person without it you cannot achieve what you want.
- Loud - Only with my friends!
- Moody - Yes, Especially PMS days. My mood swings to one mood to another. At least, Lloyd can handle it. : p
- Sporty - I play badminton. I love swimming and hiking.
- Hard chick - I kick ass! : p
- Outgoing - Is wild and outgoing the same? :D
- Elegant - Simple yet Elegant, that's me! :D
- Mean - Yes, especially if you are also mean to me. I am meaner.
- High Maintenance - Very. Especially when it comes to myself. I have a high standard to the point that people get mad at me because of how I act. I just love myself so much, you know.
- Bestfriends turned Lovers - We were best friends for more than 2 years before we actually had love feelings for each other. The feeling was mutual.
- It wasn't easy - It was really hard because I had a current relationship back then. The story? Here.
- Months of Trials and Hardships - Before we moved in to the next stage, We went through ups and downs to finally be together and I gave him so much challenges to prove himself to me. It was really hard because I was always misunderstood by people and sadly, my own friends for giving him hard time and extreme difficulties and for the fact that my grandmother wont approve to our relationship that time made it all worst but later, my grandmother did understood me.
- April 29, 2009 - We became Official. :) I finally ended all his miseries. ( As if it was very hard. Hahaha ) The story? Here.
- Blissful - For me, A relationship with your best friend is the most blissful relationship. It maybe hard for us at the start but the reward of trials and hardships is incomparable. Why? Its all because of FRIENDSHIP! The foundation of your love is friendship. I tell you, In a relationship like this you have to be open and optimistic. Just like any relationship, this also have downfalls but if you think ahead and look into the brighter side you can surpass anything that gets into your way. Remember: Do not get afraid of committing just because you are afraid of losing the friendship. You have to take the risk if you want to be happy. Truly HAPPY. :)
PERSONAL.
- My Family - My Dad, Mom, Simon, Sarah, Samuel and my Grandmother. :)
- Lloyd! ♥
- Pancho - My 4 year old mini pincher. He's my baby dog!
- Hello Kitty - I love her ever since. GAAAH. Give me more kitties.
- Butterflies
FOOD.
- Dimsum
- Sushi
- Pasta
- Bulalo
- Beef Steak
- Sarsa Iglesia
- Buttered Crab and Shrimp
- Corn
- Mango and Strawberry
- Desserts
- Anything that my lola cooks. ♥
TECHY.
- Cybershot Camera
- iPhone
iPodUnderwater CameraPSPNokia N70- Laptop
- Subaru Impreza WRX or Mazda 3
PLACES.
- My Bedroom - My heaven.
- Puerto Galera
Cebu - Lived here for three years.
Bohol - I saw dolphins here! :)
- Palawan
Hongkong - I love ocean park.
- Japan - Madaming Hello kitty dito!! GAAAHH.
- Korea
- Paris
- Enchanted Kingdom - 1st anniversary plan. ♥
- Cockroaches - as in capital I-P-I-S!
- Pollution - Pollution makes me poor. I waste all my money for a taxi fare just because I hate smokes so much. It gives me headache. Grrr. Cant the authorities do something about it?
- Cigarette's smoke - Nahihilo ako.
- Dance Club - Not that I hate dancing and mingling with people. I just hate loud music. It gives me migraine.
- Coward - People who cant even face me. As in face to face and just keep on talking behind my back are pathetic.
- Walk out - I hate it how people walk out when they are face to something they cant stand.
I know this is pretty long but still,
I'm happy I was able to express myself in words. :D
- Ella Dizon
" Doll Outside, Devil Inside. "
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